How To Think About Personal & Charitable Giving After Tragedy Strikes (Ep. 96)



When tragedy strikes, how do we respond with both heart and wisdom?

What are the right—and potentially wrong—ways to support grieving families after a devastating loss?

In the wake of the catastrophic flooding in Central Texas this past July, co-hosts Jeff Green and Lauren Smith take a compassionate, candid look at how individuals and communities can offer meaningful support during times of unimaginable tragedy. While this episode was prompted by the loss felt throughout the Camp Mystic and Hunt, Texas communities, the insights shared apply to any situation where grief runs deep and help is needed.

With warmth, honesty, and practical guidance, Jeff and Lauren explore how to give generously without adding unintended stress—and why thoughtful financial decisions matter more than ever during moments like these. Together they discuss:

  • Common missteps people make when trying to help—and what actually makes a lasting difference
  • Pros and cons of using platforms like GoFundMe (including tax and privacy considerations)
  • Alternatives to GoFundMe, including donor-advised funds and how they can create lasting legacies
  • How to vet charities and ensure your donations are going to qualified 501(c)(3) nonprofits
  • The importance of showing up after the funeral, when grief lingers but support often fades
  • The role of MealTrain and other practical ways to support families long-term
  • Why it’s essential to pause before making major financial decisions in the wake of trauma
  • If you’re looking for actionable ways to give with both heart and clarity—this episode is worth a listen.

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